Nothing earth shattering, but if you had a chance to start your career over, would you do anything different?
For me, I think I may have tried to go deep sea before I got married. I have loved my time on the Lakes and, overall, enjoyed my six years in the Gulf but I think a few years deep sea would have been interesting. Oh, well…can’t go back and I am fortunate to have a good job with a solid boat and great crew.
I’ve made so many bad calls job wise. Lack of patience and such…
In a nutshell…I would have gone to an academy. Being a hawsepiper has been rough.
I wish I would have sailed deep sea for a while, for the experience…then concentrated exclusively with tugboats.
I’ve bounced around a bit, have gained a lot of varied experience, have deck and engine credentials…however I could have been way more efficient, smarter with my decisions and be in a much better place career and lifestyle wise if I didn’t have my head up my arse when I was younger.
I have done deep sea for 46 years ( including academy and some time in the office and in shipyards ). I do not regret anything. I am still married to the wife of my choosing, we have two daughters and three grandkids. It was difficult at times but that’s life anyhow. I fear that we will never have those gorgeous times back when we helped and trusted each other.
Nah. Good choices and bad, I don’t think that I would do it any differently. Even the coming ashore bit. . . I could speculate about the jobs I turned down once I got married (now divorced), but it has been one hell of a ride so far. . . and I don’t see the end yet, either. . .
I very much enjoyed my job as a chief mate on trampers. At noon the captain, chief engineer and I always had a drink before lunch. I was still in my twenties and was slated to become a deep sea captain around my early 30s. However, during our “happy hour” I heard the other two (older) gentlemen mainly talk about in how many years, months, weeks and days they could retire. This did not appeal to me, so I quit sailing; went back to college to get a degree in finance and got a good job with a major oil company.