I mean I get what you’re saying, and I don’t disagree, but if they’ve managed to sell themselves to make comparable pay on shore, and we’re busting our ass 6, 7 ,8 months a year on a ship, who’s really the fool? I’m not one to find identity and value in job titles. If you want to be “Rear Adm. Upper half, Commanding Officer, Second only to God on the Good Barge 257” instead of Lead Tankerman, and that’s what gets you a job, good for them. This is your competition, you’re welcome to do better.
This is actually the observed shelf life for a lot of academy kids. I’m only still here in year 6 because I’m chasing a dream, if that peters out, I’m gone too. Objectively This sucks and I’d rather be shoreside. I fully understand the grass isn’t greener on the other side- rather it’s brown everywhere- But I’m just tired of wearing shoes when I shower, and I’m tired of living in what would be a really shitty studio apartment for half the year. I’m not at the end of the story yet, so I couldn’t tell you if I should have gone into computer science or something, but sometimes it sure feels like it. It wasn’t even the license renewal that knocked people out, I really couldn’t tell you what happens at the 5 year mark.
I’m going to sound like a whiney millennial for a moment and say that our generations have different challenges and expectations around availability. I don’t know what life was like in the 90s, I was in diapers for most of it, but today, If you’re not damn near married when you start sailing, even getting off the ground is next to impossible. Dating apps suck if you have a normal land job, now, overlay that on a rotational sailing schedule and it’s damn near impossible to find a significant other that’s not looking for a green card. Best case scenario, working 21/21, you have three weeks to convince a girl not to ghost you when you disappear for the next three weeks. when people have seemingly infinite choices at their fingertips, you’re going to be forgotten and replaced. In today’s dating world, you can’t hope you’re the only guy a girl is talking to, you have to hope you’re one of the favorites. As the corporate world seems to be shifting away from an actual 9-5 and towards remote or hybrid work, it does lend itself nicely to actually having a life. It’s not impossible, but it would be a hell of a lot easier if I could make it to Applebee’s every Friday.
You’re absolutely right, I work with so many unlimited captains and mates who absolutely have no understanding of how to properly use an ECDIS. There is an active thread talking about how we can get ENCs printed on paper charts to meet carriage requirements for God’s sake, and I know of multiple outfits choosing to carry expired paper charts, essentially because the old timers don’t understand the tools available to them. If a third mate walked on to the bridge and didn’t know how to put a PI line on a paper chart 20 years ago, they should have been fired. But today, when companies ask senior officers to do a simulator exercise they’re “being target” and “forced out of a job” because they fail a sim exercise. The biggest lesson I’ve learned in 6 years is that “Highly Trained American Merchant Mariners” is not our best argument for protecting the Jones Act.