I just thought I would update the thread with my progress:
I called the NMC and spoke with my evaluator. Let me start by saying that this experience was a million times better than my last one (late 2009), in that I was able to get through basically right away (last time I literally spent hours/days on hold). Thank you, NMC!
I explained my thoughts to the evaluator, referencing the MSM and the CFR, and why I thought I should or at least could be qualified. I also mentioned that I knew of others with similar sea time to me who did have the AB-Sail (didn’t mention any names but I know that, for example, Shellback’s and my backgrounds are similar). I made sure to let them know that I was not seeking anything I did not deserve, but neither did I want to give up something I should have.
The evaluator basically agreed (after all, he had approved it initially), but said that in order to take it further, I would have to send in a letter asking for “reconsideration,” and that this reconsideration would likely take a month or more (they have many reconsiderations to handle and it involves going over your sea time, etc. with a fine-toothed comb so is time consuming).
Well, that did not sound too appealing right now as I would like to get the AB-Special (which has been approved and is sitting on the same application). So I asked the evaluator: If I rescind my application for the AB-Sail now, is that tantamount to saying I agree that I don’t qualify? Or could I rescind it now, and then get my AB-Special, and then later re-apply for the AB-Sail at which point the evaluation would not be holding up something else?
He said that I could do the latter, and it would not indicate that I was “giving in” and agreeing that I don’t qualify for the AB-Sail. I simply can mail/fax a letter now saying that I would like to remove the AB-Sail from this application (and if I want to I can note that I will re-apply later), and then they can get my AB-Special/Lifeboatman coming now.
I think I will do the latter. It will cost me a bit more, but at this point I would prefer that to waiting a month (or more…) for the AB-Special, etc. In the meantime I can also check into the 100-ton mate a bit more and make sure whether I do or don’t qualify for that.
I will update this thread if/when I have more information. Thanks to everyone who has chimed in.
Now I will be reading the “jobs” threads with my own fine-toothed comb! 
C. Dennis