You’re right, and I shouldn’t have reacted as quickly as I did with the snarky comment. It’s not every middle aged white guys fault. And I’m sure you’re a good person who genuinely doesn’t want shitty people out there continuing to do this.
My point is that, yeah, reporting it is ideal. But that clearly isn’t happening for a variety of reasons. However, saying maybe the VICTIMS are the problem sure as shit is not the answer. I said earlier the many different reasons people are afraid to report. It’s great that on your ship people don’t have to worry about that kind of treatment, however elsewhere they do.