It was such a pleasant sunny day, but still rough enough to destroy your not sinking sailboat when you came alongside.
Give me a break. You fucked up in your choice of crew, you fucked up again by not telling her to shut the fuck up. Instead you activated an emergency system so she could go home. You could have avoided being in the water by telling tough titty and continuing on.
Furthermore you make it sound like lowering yourself down the stern of a ship at sea to pluck someone from the water is this normal everyday task. That captain went to extraordinary levels of personal risk to save your ungrateful dumb ass. He isn’t obligated to do that, we aren’t the national guard, the coast guard, or a fucking crossing guard. I’ll render any assistance I can with out putting myself or my crew in undue risk. You know why? Beucause I like many mariners have a family at home, and they matter a whole lot more to me than some whiny little cunt like yourself. If he had died rescuing you, if any of his crew had, would you support their families?
No, you’d probably go on an Internet forum and tell everyone what they should have done. Take your six pack and shove it up your ass. I had a 100 ton at 19 but much like my dick, I don’t go waving that around the room.